Adult rated Keds How did you tell your SO about your fetish

[Mule]

There were a couple of topics that came up in Sunday's chat.

One of them was how young we were when we first developed the fetish. Most boys seem to catch the fever before they are 10.

The other topic was for those who have convinced a partner to participate in the fetish, how did you tell them? How long did it take for you to get up the nerve to tell them?

In my case, I "tricked" my wife into finding out:

My wife was very pregnant with my second son. Conventional sex was becoming uncomfortable for her, yet she still wanted to please me. I later found out that she confided in one of her girlfriends who suggested oral sex. My wife didn't like that idea either, so her girlfriend suggested manual masturbation. My wife did bring this topic up with me, and she tried giving me a "hand job" with limited success.

Then one Saturday morning, she was up early cleaning the house. I had gotten up a little later. My wife was attired in her "pregnant woman uniform": an oversized running suit and had a pair of Kinney's Capers on her feet.

I had, by this time, surrendered my lazy-boy recliner to her, since she needed to get her feet up often, yet needed to be able to get out of the chair with a out-of-whack center of gravity. This is the position I found her in when I got up.

I went to the kitchen and got us both a cup of coffee. She complained about how tired her legs were, so I knelt in front of her and started to massage them. My penis slipped out of my pajamas, and I had no problem pushing it into the soles of her sneakers. I started humping (a difficult thing to do in the position I was in), and she took over pumping it from toe to toe. She could see the effect she was having on me, and ejaculated me in a matter of minutes.

I had known the woman for 6 years before we got married, and we were married about 3 years at this point.

 

[cush]

Telling my SO!

Telling my SO!

I should be so lucky.....

Now at the age of 31 times are great and I am enjoying life and pursuing my sneaker fetish in private and in moderation. This all changed when my wife bought a new pair of shoes! Wow …nice black pair of Naturalizer pumps with leathers completely covering the instep and a stylish low heel. The intoxicating smell of that leather was just too much to resist. I don’t know what came over me, but I had this urge to share a fantasy with my wife. I asked her to wear her white sneakers to bed one night and of course she asked ..Why? Well I decided to tell her the truth….that I had a fetish for females in white sneakers and certain styles of shoes. She said this was something she did not understand and that she did not want to get involved.

Well I agreed and that was that…until later that year I was caught in the act. Often I would keep a pair of shoes or sneakers under the bed and would partake of my fetish after she had gone to sleep. On this on particular nigh I had fallen asleep with the Naturalizer pumps on and she turned over and threw her arms around me only to discover her shoes on my penis. Well, there was much controversy and again I asked her to just wear them while we made love. Again she refused, however I convinced her it was really innocent and that I would be discreet and practice my fetish when she was not in the mood or when I was alone. A mutual agreement was reached and that was that.

Cheers
Cush

 

[Guest]

Well, I'm not married at all and only 21. I have had 4 girlfriends. They all wore Converse at my request. It was weird. I just came straight out and asked them if they'd wear Converse shoes for me and with all 4, they agreed to. My first GF was for 1,5 years and after the first 3 months I told her about my fetish, but we were both young and by the end of the relationship she didn't want to wear them anymore. My 2nd girl was internet and she was horrible and she said she was wearing them, but I never got to see her and it ended after a month. She lied to me a lot. The 3rd girl was another internet one, but she lived in another state and we saw each other on webcam. I called her up once and she after I asked her and she went and bought some Converse and while on the phone with her once I asked her and she tied them together and hopped all around the house. Her step dad was there and he was laughing. It was amazing coz that turns me on. But there were problems with her and the law so I let her go. The 4th on lasted 2 weeks and I'm still confused as to why it ended, but I asked her to wear them and she said sure, so I got her size and bought her a pair and she wore them for me then until she didn't a turn arund on me and broke up with me out of the blue. Since then, no luck at all, but I've been able to get the girls I was with to wear Converse. I've tried to convince other people I met on the net just as friends to wear them and this one girl I work with at Wal-Mart, but they wouldn't. So it's been cool, but if it were really I would still of one of them. Oh, and I came into my fetish very early on. Way back when I was learning how to tie a shoe I'd always tie them together. And one person in a sunday school class very long ago tied their shoes together and jumped around when the teacher was gone and I did mine but just sat. I got into Converse when I got to high school I think.