Discussion PLEASE HELP! Wife found jerk stash. (1 Viewer)

[Alphamail4123]

my wife just found my stash of used sneakers and panties and I’m 8 hours away at a conference.. idk what to do so I came here. I’m so scared. 2 kids, 5 & 3. I’m so ashamed. Please help

 

[keds2001]

Be honest with her. No biggie, we all have GF or wives and still rub one out once in a while. Involve her, buy her some Keds and open your relationship. This could be a good thing.

 

[softkeds]

Good advice, it is a sexual fantasy, my wife often pushes back and scolds me for my Keds fetish, but then wears the sexiest Keds around and during sex, but she knows, they hate secret keepers…

 

[Alphamail4123]

Be honest with her. No biggie, we all have GF or wives and still rub one out once in a while. Involve her, buy her some Keds and open your relationship. This could be a good thing.

Thank you so much… after the initial shock and anger, I think she’s starting to understand it’s a fetish and not about the women that wore them. I actually kind of feel a sense of relief now that I don’t have to hide it and that she sees what I’m attracted to

 

[Alphamail4123]

Good advice, it is a sexual fantasy, my wife often pushes back and scolds me for my Keds fetish, but then wears the sexiest Keds around and during sex, but she knows, they hate secret keepers…

Thank you so much.. I think the biggest issue was her worry that it’s about the woman that wore them and considered it similar to cheating. Going forward, I won’t be as hesitant to enjoy her shoes more which she knows I love during sex. Before it was just a sense of shame I guess if I showed her too much attraction to her shoes..

 

[keds2001]

Thank you so much… after the initial shock and anger, I think she’s starting to understand it’s a fetish and not about the women that wore them. I actually kind of feel a sense of relief now that I don’t have to hide it and that she sees what I’m attracted to

For me it's a deal breaker, I open up early into the relationship and if they push back and won't play then I am out. It is that important to me and I want them to wear Keds for me. If they say it's weird/sick/gross then I simply move on. My life is too short to not enjoy something I love with my girl. I have been thru 10 or so gals and they ALL said OK and wore the Keds and sneakers for me. My wife now has like 20+ pairs and wears them 100% of the sex time and about 70% when we go out. They are not very good in the snow and all, LOL ;-)