I was just thinking about this again and agree that one person can seem to spoil it all, but if the guy were doing something that was considered of the "norm" type fetishes people would be disgusted, but not think of it as so wierd.
It would be cool if someone could come out with a movie or show that featured a women who loved to wear Keds and loved guys who wore Keds. It still would be considered very strange to most, but if Hollywood somehow focused on it, it might become more accepted some how.
I don't think it would be good if the guy was some sort of ******/murderer - you get my drift - and preyed upon women in Keds. That would be probably detremental to the whole thing.
Ever now and then I see some cool "erotic" type movies (not adult, but bordering) that would be so hot if the girl was wearing Keds.
Oh well, I still suggest private for a while and see how the press handles anything. I don't think anything would or could happen, but we don't need to be too obvious either.