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I've had a sneaker fetish for quite some time, i guess i knew when i was about ten. I've always had the fantasy to have sex with a girl in nothing but sneakers. That finally happened with my current girlfriend a few weeks back. She was drinking and i convinced her to put on her nike high top cheer shoes from highschool, and the sex was amazing. since, i've asked her sober to put on her power cheerleading shoes, and she thinks i'm a freak, i can't wait to do her agian in her sneakers, but she thinks it's totally weird! we've been to together for a few years now and i don't know what to do, any adivse would be great!
 
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I've had a sneaker fetish for quite some time, i guess i knew when i was about ten. I've always had the fantasy to have sex with a girl in nothing but sneakers. That finally happened with my current girlfriend a few weeks back. She was drinking and i convinced her to put on her nike high top cheer shoes from highschool, and the sex was amazing. since, i've asked her sober to put on her power cheerleading shoes, and she thinks i'm a freak, i can't wait to do her agian in her sneakers, but she thinks it's totally weird! we've been to together for a few years now and i don't know what to do, any adivse would be great!

There are several possibilities that you might try, to get her more comfortable with your sneaker fetish. In my experience with Women either they’re genuinely into sneakers, as a fetish or if you’re lucky, they’ll at least indulge you occasionally. However the sex is obviously better if both people are into some aspect of the fetish, in my case my exwife would indulge my interest but really wasn’t into sneakers sexually, or much of anything else far as I could tell.

If your g/f is bi,(or even bi curious) when you’re out in public, you might have fun spotting girls together. You could ask her, her opinion about a certain girl, that you find attractive who just happens to be sporting sneakers? Then get a discussion started to feel out her ideas, maybe even incorporate sneakers into some of her kinks or play ideas?

Also compliment her when she’s wearing sneakers that really make you horny, take her sneaker shopping, then buy her something she really wants, jeans, etc. So you’re not exactly making the focus of the shopping outing specifically about sneakers although probably will be for you.

I think the key is to let her know that you love her, more than the sneakers (even if it’s not exactly true) Because if a woman feels loved, secure & content, they’ll pretty much do anything for you in order to maintain that level of safety, importance & comfort in their lives.

These are just a couple of ideas maybe that’ll help you hopefully to find a common ground & for the two of you to keep enjoying mind blowing sex with sneakers. Thankfully I’ve long since divorced my exwife, now I’m in a great relationship with a girl who genuinely likes sneakers as much as I do 🙂

I'm definitely not bragging, I just joined to let people know that there's nothing bizzare, or unusual about them simply because they've a fetish for sneakers. After all no one thinks anything weird about heel & pump lovers. The rest of us just love Fuck Me Sneakers!:icon_mrgr

Good luck & I hope that gives you some ideas.
 
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Nice job greentea, I can't come up with anything else! Just wanted to let you know junglejim, it's good to see someone else from jersey on the board!
 
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A pretty good summation by Green Tea.

Overall. Remember. Life is short. As much as we would all love to win the lottery and live out life on a beach - these things often just don't happen. So we make due with what we get/have.

The same goes for sneaker girls. Not everyone is going to appreciate it. Bide your time and savour the moments that you can get them and live life to the fullest.
 
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Also compliment her when she’s wearing sneakers that really make you horny, take her sneaker shopping, then buy her something she really wants, jeans, etc. So you’re not exactly making the focus of the shopping outing specifically about sneakers although probably will be for you.

That is priceless advice. I started out very slowly, but it's come to the point at which when I take my wife shopping -- meaning she is out to buy more than just shoes -- we usually come home with a pair of shoes I've "signed off" on (like a pair of Keds).

I believe she doesn't mind this at all because I have spent the time with her, and by showing that she still is very attractive to me, the dividends have paid off in our sex -- she indulges me by wearing a pair of Keds every now and then.
 
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I agree, STELLAR! Advice! Im going to use some of that if ya dont mind ! 🙂
 
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I used to be the same way.Since i noticed it first with a particular pair of sandles and boots i would use this to my advantage.The first few times I had sex with her in her sandels.She had a skirt on and I basicly just kinda worked into it by taking her skirt and top off just leaving her in panties,bra,and those fantastic sandels.I had her pretty much going at this point and i just started to go at it with her sandels on.We had fantastic sex.their was just something about indulging it that made it better for me,and by default better for her.as we layed their i explained that I think i have a shoe fetish and it may be weird but i really enjoyed her wearing those sandels.From then on she was fine with it,because after all she was happy after sex already but with the shoes it was insane to her how much I got into it.My advice would be to be honast.If you explain to her you don't fully understand it yourself but enjoy it,maybe she'll indulge like my ex did.Since that first expirence years ago i've been honast with every girl afterwards and thankfully they've understood and sometimes gotten into it as well.I hope my story about how awakward i felt helps you know a ninja knows where your coming from.Just be honast and show her that indulging in your fetish will overall help your sex life
 

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