Re: sneakers, sex, and i need advice
I've had a sneaker fetish for quite some time, i guess i knew when i was about ten. I've always had the fantasy to have sex with a girl in nothing but sneakers. That finally happened with my current girlfriend a few weeks back. She was drinking and i convinced her to put on her nike high top cheer shoes from highschool, and the sex was amazing. since, i've asked her sober to put on her power cheerleading shoes, and she thinks i'm a freak, i can't wait to do her agian in her sneakers, but she thinks it's totally weird! we've been to together for a few years now and i don't know what to do, any adivse would be great!
There are several possibilities that you might try, to get her more comfortable with your sneaker fetish. In my experience with Women either they’re genuinely into sneakers, as a fetish or if you’re lucky, they’ll at least indulge you occasionally. However the sex is obviously better if both people are into some aspect of the fetish, in my case my exwife would indulge my interest but really wasn’t into sneakers sexually, or much of anything else far as I could tell.
If your g/f is bi,(or even bi curious) when you’re out in public, you might have fun spotting girls together. You could ask her, her opinion about a certain girl, that you find attractive who just happens to be sporting sneakers? Then get a discussion started to feel out her ideas, maybe even incorporate sneakers into some of her kinks or play ideas?
Also compliment her when she’s wearing sneakers that really make you horny, take her sneaker shopping, then buy her something she really wants, jeans, etc. So you’re not exactly making the focus of the shopping outing specifically about sneakers although probably will be for you.
I think the key is to let her know that you love her, more than the sneakers (even if it’s not exactly true) Because if a woman feels loved, secure & content, they’ll pretty much do anything for you in order to maintain that level of safety, importance & comfort in their lives.
These are just a couple of ideas maybe that’ll help you hopefully to find a common ground & for the two of you to keep enjoying mind blowing sex with sneakers. Thankfully I’ve long since divorced my exwife, now I’m in a great relationship with a girl who genuinely likes sneakers as much as I do
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I'm definitely not bragging, I just joined to let people know that there's nothing bizzare, or unusual about them simply because they've a fetish for sneakers. After all no one thinks anything weird about heel & pump lovers. The rest of us just love Fuck Me Sneakers!:icon_mrgr
Good luck & I hope that gives you some ideas.