What women think
What women think
This is a very interesting topic, Mule.
As I said in my other posting the other night, I built up to the "big admission" with Mrs Superstar over a period of months, starting with buying her the sneakers. Once we had "the chat", I remember that she was quite OK, if not a little bemused (bearing in mind that we were college students back then).
She doesn't like me to give her the sense that sneakers are all there is (ie she has gone through quiet negative periods about sneaks, doing the girl thing, and being worried that "it's not me you're in love with, it's my sneaks", so you have to pull back a bit sometimes, I find.
But overall, she's pretty cool, and most always indulges, by wearing the sneaks in bed; she's been very pleased/relieved to find out via the internet that its widespread enough of a fetish to have spawned quite a few sites and groups etc. In fact, she now jokes that she's convinced that there are sneaker guys all over the place in various mental closets - I joke with her that all guys who work in sneaker shops are sneaker fetishists, and I think she half believes me, based on some of the discussions we have when we're buying sneaks!
She never wore sneaks before we met, but after I told her about it, she actually used it as an excuse to "wear really comfy shoes", and ever since, she's been the "sneakers and jeans" type of girl-next-door look, which suits me fine (this is almost 25 years now!), and she rarely wears non-sneaker type shoes (unless she really can't avoid it). And actually, she's often quite mischevious, and combines her comfort with my titillation by wearing sneakers with an outfit that women wouldn't normally wear sneakers with. She has a really large sneaker collection, after all this time of regular buying (the deal is that she must always make the choice, and not me, which is a small price to pay). She actually delights in going to swank functions with me with killer clothes and sneakers on, which is really cool - we recently went to a fairly up-market corporate do at the theatre and wore some really swank block pants and a long top with jewellery, and a new pair of reebok dmx's (color coordinated of course).
Do any other sneaker wives do this sort of thing?
As a final note, my sneaker wife isn't really into keds at all, and considers them "nurses shoes", so I've got a bit of a battle there - she's wear them in bed, but that's it, and usually Bliss types or deck sneaks. Her modus operandi in her "Bed Bliss" (knowing that they drive me nuts) is to allow me to put them on her while she is propped up up in bed with a hot chocolate and reading a "bodice ripper", and let's me put them on her and then lets me cum all over them, which has become a standing joke in our house about the term "Bliss"!
Anyway, enough rambling for now, but this is very theraputic guys! :lol:
